We have been together over ten years and have been with other couples and women. We are laid back professionals looking to add more variety. We go to some parties but not usually the themed ones, and we aren't out parting every weekend....so please no attitudes if we don't drop everything to make plans for tomorrow. Attitudes and pushy people are the biggest turn-offs.

My Ideal Person We are a full swap couple. She is not aggressive, so if you are looking to be seduced it's not going to happen. Once you get her going though....
We would be happy to meet for drinks or dinner with no expectations or pressure (we expect the same), this is a great way to start. We prefer to meet people with the possibility a friendship can develop and to do things outside the bedroom. One time deals are fine, but if there is no chemistry...forget it. Best for us is Philly or AC, but we do travel to NYC and MD area and occasionally central NC and Naples, Fl.